In fact, Lin thinks it’s refreshing for the woman to be the first to reach out.“Because of gender norms, a lot of men are getting tired of being the ones to always have to take the risk of being rejected.Folks can say they are open to all races all they want, but the proof is in the actual interaction, and with access to the backend of the platform, researchers see the truth.“We study predominately by looking at patterns of behavior,” says Lewis.You message him and say something smart-assy, like, ” I see you like to fish. The ball is now in his court, and he is free to pursue.You reached out, subtly showed your interest, but didn’t leave yourself open to rejection. You play the numbers, message a high volume of men you deem as potential quality, and then see what that reaps you.The research also reveals that most black women do respond to non-blacks when approached, and seem to be open, so the resistance isn’t on our end.
It’s not fair, it’s extra work, but it is what it is, and the only way to improve our station is to acknowledge it and work to improve it.They say we’ll have more luck making the first move than to sit on the sidelines waiting to be picked.Lin said that online, the numbers work to a black woman’s favor because there’s more men signed up for dating services than women. I’m hopeful that what we’ve been seeing will change with micro-interactions,” says Lin.Veel van deze vrouwen zijn wanhopige alleenstaande moeders en gehuwde vrouwen die op zoek zijn naar spannend plezier. Ga je ermee akkoord om de identiteit van deze vrouwen geheim te houden?Author’s Note: What you are about to read may bruise your ego.