For this week's Sex Talk Realness, spoke with four anonymous twentysomething women about when, how, and why they masturbate. One thing I always do, and I'm not sure why, is that I never stimulate the entire clitoris on my own. I have tried thinking about my partner a few times but I thought it was a bit distracting. Mentally, my head has to be in the game, or it feels like a waste of time. I love using breast-themed toys like nipple suckers because it helps to recreate the way that sex can allow for multiple erogenous zones to be stimulated at once.Ironically, my satisfaction wasn't from feeling sexual release but was from feeling like I had accomplished something — I had figured out how to orgasm! It just makes me feel powerful in a way nothing else does, boosts my self-confidence, and helps with headaches and lower back pain.It sounds so obvious, but masturbation is a personal form of sex.
For me, masturbation is about pleasure but not necessarily sexual pleasure. If I have an argument with a friend I will masturbate as soon as I get home to get my mind off of it.
I focus on the sensations and the rhythms of my hand. Seems a bit boring compared to sex, but it does the job when you're by yourself.
If it's just my imagination, I will use previous stories or images and mash them together Woman D: I don't think about anything in particular, really.
I cure anxiety over big projects with self-induced orgasms.
Do you use porn or anything else to get you in the mood?