You know your way around a camera, you’re an excellent dancer, you play classical guitar, you have awesome tattoos, you make a killer chicken almondine.Personally, at the end of this I like to say something along the lines of “…and I’m modest too! No, But Seriously: You drop the slightly cocky facade to be real: she seems like a cool person.This is the part where you make clear that you read her profile, and you’re going to be specific about it. ” You’re still not quite sure she’s worth your time, but you’re definitely interested in finding out.“I guess it was that you said you love Neil Gaiman’s graphic novels; have you ever read ‘American Gods’? You want to make it clear that you’re intrigued by what she’s had to say about herself.Personally, I’ve written things like “Pirates Are Much Cooler Than Ninjas” or “Who Ordered The Large Cheese Pizza, Double Anchovies”; anything that comes to mind.
You’re Interested In Finding Out More About Her: You want to know if she’s as interesting and attractive as she is in her profile. Acknowledge The Obvious: You know damn good and well that you’re the 10,000th person to message her. About You: This is where you introduce/brag about yourself in miniature.Notice the key words here: “fun” and “great conversation”.You’re a fun person; people enjoy their time in your presence.” A little self-aware humor goes a long way; you don’t take this too seriously. You wanted to say “hey” and let her know that you’d love to get to know her.And if she’s interested in fun times and great conversation, then she should definitely write back.