Phil says you must have a plan where you create what you want. There's an art to it and everybody has their own style," he says. Find out what you want to know and decide what it is you want him to know and make sure you deliver that information on that first date.
Phil says you don't want to be somebody you're not. "I don't care if you answer that from a moral standpoint or some other standpoint. Phil returns with his wife, Robin, to talk about couples who are stuck in a relationship rut.
Appearing on the Today Show in January 2008, Mc Graw said that he has made it "very clear" that his current work does not involve the practice of psychology.
He also said that he had "retired from psychology".
"But one of the things you need to do are minimal encouragers, where you let the other person know, I'm hearing what you're saying.
I'm interested in what you're saying, with what you're doing right now.