So, my brilliant readers, since you have strong opinions on all things pertaining to dating and relationships, I’d love to hear from you: Why do YOU think men pull away from women and committed relationships?
I know it’s a broad question, but I really want to hear what you have to say! I think men pull away from women and relationships because its just not ‘right’.
Think carefully about inviting us back after a first date – Yes, we might well ask you but that doesn’t necessarily mean we want you to say yes.
A kiss on your doorstep is enough to reassure us that you are interested but if you invite us in for the night we will start to wonder if this happens to every guy you date.
Do your own thing – Never make us the centre of your world.
Men love doing their own thing, and they love a woman who does her own thing even more.
Retain a bit of mystery and avoid sending him a friend request until you’ve got to know each other better. Pay attention to the introductions – We guys are extremely territorial (even though we may not know it) and once we’ve come to the conclusion that this is the woman we want, we’ll start saying things like “This is my girlfriend, Sarah”.
Once he has started calling you his girlfriend, babe, woman, or even his other half, he won’t stop.
A week in advance, or possibly a month, is usually as far as we are willing to commit after a few weeks or even months of dating.If your date becomes your boyfriend then there will be plenty of opportunities for both of you to let your hair down.But a guy will most likely be a little scared if you knock back a few shots before dinner.But do you really want a guy you just met to see all those old photos you’ve been tagged in?Do you really want him to know why your boss upset you so much today or how much weight you want to lose this year?