Is his or her attitude and language and conduct what you would like to live with every day?
"That said, none of us marry perfection; we marry potential.
It does not make sense to go out with a man who you know would never leave his wife for you. She could be a nice woman who trusts her husband implicitly and showers all her love on him. Once she gets to know of the truth, she will be shattered and you will be partly responsible for this.
Sooner or later, he will dump you and there will be nobody around to nurse your wounds. It is not fair to keep her in the dark while you go about having an affair with her husband.
Even if he is unhappy with his marriage and his wife troubles him, ask him to get a divorce first and then get into a relationship with you. It is easy for a man to get away with this but you will have to face severe consequences for this.
Worse, his wife and your family will suffer for no fault of theirs. ] Pain There is a lot of pain and sorrow involved when you get involved with a married man.
The right marriage is not only about what I want; it’s also about what she — who’s going to be my companion — wants and needs me to be.
"Speaking plainly, please don’t date all through your 20s just to 'have a good time,' thus delaying marriage in favor of other interests and activities. Because dating and marriage aren’t final destinations.
Not only are you putting your relationship with your family, friends and relatives at stake, you are also ruining somebody else’s life.What can you do if you are already involved with him?[ Read: Falling In Love with a Married Man ] Having an affair with a married man is often perceived as a scandalous thing. If you are dating a married man, you are doing it on the sly. Both of you meet secretly and keep your affair under wraps.And, nobody but you is responsible for putting you in that spot.Sometimes, we lose our heart to someone only to realize that we cannot have them in our life. After knowing this, we should stop thinking about them and move on.