Your job is to pay attention to that red flag and not pursue them.Rule #3: Actions Speak Louder Than Words During the course of your dating life you will most likely find yourself on a date with someone whose actions speak much louder than their words.By paying attention and screening out potential partners whose actions don’t match their words, you cut down on wasted dating time and make it that much easier to attract potential partners worth your time and energy.Rule #4: Don’t Play Games Successful singles know what goes around comes around.If you don’t want to see them again, say so in a kind and considerate way.By being honest and letting them down easy, you avoid playing games. If you don’t get it, don’t play games by taking that out on the next person you date.To become a truly successful single in the new millennium, you owe it to yourself to become a red flag specialist.That means paying attention to red flags as they are presented to you on dates.
When someone’s actions are contrary to their words, this is not only a red flag, it’s gut-check time.
“I asked my friend to describe me, and here’s what he wrote…” is a cop-out.
By writing this in your profile, you’re telling people that you’re not smart or self-aware enough to write it yourself.
Most living grown-ups have a history of exes, hang-ups and maybe a nervous breakdown or two. They know that you have a past, but they don’t want to hear about it. Some online dating profiles read like shopping lists.
They’re looking for someone with brown eyes, short hair, between 5’10” and 6′, from north-east Birmingham, and so on. First, they make the writer sound like a control freak.